femmebecause

I like my femininity.
I like lace and silk and satin and pretty things and I am comfortable with my body parts
And I like wearing makeup and carrying a purse...
Because I am attracted to butch women.
I like having strong arms hold me and the swagger and the attitude
And the obvious appreciation for femmes.
I like someone else to drive, open the door for me, make me feel safe
and wanted and cared for and taken care of.
Because I like to give emotional support or safety to my butch.
To care for them, and as you get to know each other or fall in
love, they let you into their heart a little at a time.
They lower their 'nobody can get close to me' wall a little at a
time until you know what they are all about and you can
almost see right into their heart.
I like the feeling of my butch coming home, still a little
puffed up from dealing with the cold outside world, and they
sigh and relax in my arms.
Because I like the sexuality.
When you're with a butch, it's about how good we can be together, how we can
please each other, and getting pleasure by giving pleasure. With a het
man, it's all about his orgasm, sometimes they want the woman to climax, but the most
important goal is his own orgasm. Yuck.
I think all these reasons rolled into one, and probably more
that I haven't thought of, are why I am femme.

Jodi