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Butch-Femme Leather List Definitions - Page 4
Temporary Piercing -- Using a sterile needle to penetrate the skin as a stimulation rather than to produce a hole to be used for jewelry as in conventional piercing.
Top -- A person who in play delivers the stimulation but does not require the submission of His or Her partner.
Top Drop -- See Bottom drop.
Topping From Below -- (derogatory) For a submissive to dictate the precise action in a scene. A term of contempt.
Top's disease -- A condition where a top or dominant projects the fantasy role into the real world with an assumption of superiority. This kind of person can be a real pain in the ass.
True -- A term when used in conjunction with "master," "dominant," "slave" or similar term rates, at best, a snicker. As a put-down to others, it says much more about the one who is using it than the one who is being put down.
TT -- Tit torture. The term applies to both males and females.
Urtication -- Using stinging nettles in scene play. They can be simply pressed into the skin or used as a whip.
Vanilla -- Not in the scene. A term used to describe ordinary, conventional life both sexual and otherwise. While it can be used in a pejorative sense, it is more often used to distinguish between scene and non-scene activities and people.
Violet Wand -- An antique medical device still being manufactured that creates a large, but harmless, spark and is used extensively in electro play scenes.
Saint Andrew's Cross -- An X-shaped cross.
Wrapping -- Allowing the ends of a whip to go around the target's body rather than hit cleanly in the target zone. When done unintentionally, it is a mark of a careless or inexperienced whipper and is usually caused by standing too close to the subject. The intensity of the stroke is magnified several times wrapping.
Wurtenburg Wheel -- A spiked pin-wheel intended for use by neurologists but taken up and used for play by ingenious scene players. The sensation looks intense but is generally perceived as pleasurable.
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