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Butch-Femme Leather List
LEATHER LIST: RULES OF CONDUCT FOR SAFE PLAY
- This is an Adult oriented list and many topics will be explicitly sexual and Adult in nature.
- The Leather List will only allow safe, sane and consensual topics between Adults.
- No child pornography, bestiality, or terrorism of any kind permitted.
- No sexual solicitation permitted.
- No scenes on the list unless approved by group Moderator in advance.
- Learn, Remember and Respect our BDSM - D/s symbolism and etiquette.
- Respect everyone's name as they are introduced. Y/your name is who you are. Tops/Dominants may want Their name to begin with a capital letter, (i.e. Nicholas), subs/bottoms will use the lower case (i.e. nicholas) and switches may use the dual option.(i.e.N/nicholas).
- Respect Gender Pronouns. Some masculine female list members will want to be referred to as he/him.
- Respect Owners and Ownership.
- If someone is a Daddy or a Mistress/Master, etc., this does not give anyone the right to refer to them to that name. That is sometimes only reserved for the one's who are collared to them.
- All Daddies, Mistresses or Masters may not allow everyone to refer to them with this title. This privilege may be reserved only for those collared to them.
- Submissives' names may indicate their ownership (collaring or training) by a Dominant. No one should ever approach a submissive who is collared for private conversation unless agreed upon by their Top/Dominant.
- Respect Differences. The Leather Lifestyle is a large and varied one . As different tastes vary, you may view conversation/discussions that strongly conflict with your specific taste. Remember that the Leather list is open to all conversation and discussion unless otherwise noted. Should you find something offensive, simply ignore it.
- Use your common sense at all times.
- Respect everyone on this list whether they are a Dom or a sub at all times.
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